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4 September 2019

Margaret PLD 2019

Professional Development Undertaken 2019

January - Beginner Teacher/Mentor Course

First Aid Course

PD with Rob - using IT in the class, strength finders

June/July - NZ Christian Schools Teachers Conference in Tauranga

August - Beginner Teachers Writing Workshop
     

7 July 2019

TBCS - Margaret - Conference - Building Relationships that Thrive


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Josh McDowell –
Personal Notes from Course

Displine is worthless without relationship
Truth is worthless without relationship

Discipline without relationship leads to rebellion

Affirmation – affirm their feelings
Rejoice with those who rejoice.  Weep with those who weep Romans 12:15
Share in their sorrow, rejoice in their happiness
(Blame, suck it up, quote scripture) identify in their hurt
Finding out what is wrong – what are you feeling.  Feeling questions not thinking questions
Share in your kids sorrow and happiness

Acceptance
Romans 15:7 Therefore accept each other just as Christ accepted you so that God will be given glory
Your child will rise to the level of your opinion of them.



Appreciation
Give them a sense of significance – done or said something worthwhile
Matthew 3:7  This is my son and Im well pleased in him
The sweetest sound is praise – XENOPHON
Availability
A sense of importance
TIME  Matthew 19:14  But Jesus said “Let the children come to me
Spend time with your kids otherwise they wont come home
Affection
Give them a sense of them a sense of their lovability
John 15:12 Love each other as I have loved you
Verbally, express appropriate physical affection
Approach
Sense of connection – connect with what what they are interested in
Give them a sense of What Im interested in Mum is interested in
Accountability
Responsibility  give limits and boundaries (with relationship) without leads to rebellion

Wifi protection
So the next generation will know - book

TBCS - Margaret-Conference - Improving Religion in Class


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Septic Religion – Shaun Brooker
Notes from Course


Worldview chart – use this with students
What does the Bible Say?
What do others say?
What do I believe?
We think by osmosis they are going to get it.  We need to be more intentional
Intentional sheet
Christians(students) who have walked away – you shalt not rather than proclaiming life – relate to our students.  How they deal with mercy and grace and justice

Rules – we don’t do this at a Christian school – not an understanding of the rules but understanding of a relationship – he has promises for us
Discpiline/disciple – how does it help them with their walk with the lord and represent him well.
Prayer – daily, set words you should pray, not based on reality.
Laying hands – praying for each other
Risk – what do we not want it to turn into – a wishing well, repetitive prayers, meaningless prayer
What is the intention – worship – why?  Time to reflect on the words/verse
Verse of the week – before prayer – each contemplate what it means
Worship - Student led/inspired – assembly leaders to talk about the words before playing the song (like a worship leader at church)
Verses – themed/or based on what are the key verses you want kids to know when they leave.
Seans – memorisation plan on website – how so we make it relevant for what they are going through tomorrow.

TBCS - Margaret - Conference - Emotional Intelligence


 

Notes from Course

LOVE PEOPLE
Alex Snary – Emotional Intelligence

If you had to choose between getting the job done or developing a relationship what would you choose?

If we don’t know how to work in a way that maintains relationships everything fails
Look back on your school years – what do you take away with you?
Successful leadership and emotional intelligence
Studies – what leads to people moving up the ladder – the ability to be able to relate to others
When people are in a positive environment they are much more successful
Daniel Goldman
Are we equipping our children for a successful life?
Things that show poor emotional intelligence skills
 The ability to listen to others
Defensiveness

Need to control others
Need to win the conversation
The Opposite
Lack of defensive
Open to others
Value others
Sensitivity
Release people into their gifting
Abide by a decision that didn’t go your way.

Some of us start further down the line in emotional intelligence – we can all get better at it

Self awareness – if I am not aware of how I am feeling – then I can actively manage it
Strengths, weakness
Whats causing me to feel this way?
Self assessment/ leads naturally to confidence in ourselves.  We cannot change what we are not aware of.
Openly assess ourselves
Its what we do with the emotion that counts
We need people in our lives that can speak to us (students – knowing them)
Have at least 3 people that can speak to you in your lives
Reflection after feedback – space for reflection (in class)
Regular feedback with students

Self Management – once I understand I have the power on how to respond
Looking around us – in our workplace/to others
The brain should rule the heart – thinking before we speak
Leadership – be perceived as trustworthy
Adaptability – adapt leadership style according to situation (different students/classes)
Trustworthiness – integrity, honesty, self control


Social Awareness
Family/Collegues/Students
Sensing emotions of others – empathy
Social Clues – whats not being said
Physical cues/non verbal ques
Having the interest to ask questions and observe
Love people
Levels of loving people – Do we really love our kids?
Any other motivation apart from love students will pick this up.
Have a heart for people
Pray for a heart for people.  How do I keep loving them?
Empathy will naturally flow from this
Got to have the love to engage.  Empathy leads to social awareness
What is my motivation?  Am I serving the interest of the students I teach?


Relationship management – improving the way we have relationship with others
People with higher EQ naturally find themselves in positions where they are given permission to speak into peoples lives
Love People
That what kids will remember – those who encourage them, speak to them, love them genuinely

Link to Standards

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